Writing Tips from My Heart to Yours

Writing is a journey, and I’m right there with you, navigating the highs and lows. Sometimes it feels effortless, and other times, it’s like pulling words from the deepest part of myself. But over time, I've learned a few things that might make the path a little smoother for you. I hope these tips resonate with you and encourage you to keep writing, no matter where you are in your journey.

Tip #1: Write What Moves You

It’s easy to get caught up in what we should write or what we think others want to read. But trust me—writing from a place of real emotion, something that truly stirs you, is where the magic happens. Don’t worry about being “perfect” or following the rules. Write from your heart, and the rest will follow.

Tip #2: First Drafts are for You

The first draft is like a messy sketch. It doesn’t have to be pretty or polished. In fact, it shouldn’t be. It’s the place where you pour everything out, where the raw ideas take shape. Don’t get too caught up in making it perfect—just get the words on paper. You can always refine them later, but the most important thing is to start.

Tip #3: Make Writing a Habit

I know, life gets busy. But even 15 minutes a day adds up. The more you write, the more you grow as a writer. Find a time that works for you, whether it’s early mornings, late nights, or during lunch breaks, and commit to it. Don’t pressure yourself to write a masterpiece every time—just show up. The rest will come.

Tip #4: Read. A Lot. And Don’t Just Stick to One Thing

Reading isn’t just for pleasure (though it is wonderful for that too). When you read, you’re training your mind to recognize great writing, new styles, and diverse voices. Read across genres, and dive into books that challenge you. It will stretch your imagination and open up new possibilities in your own work.

Tip #5: Don’t Let Rejection Steal Your Joy

Rejection sucks. No one likes it. But I promise you, it’s part of the process. Every writer faces rejection—it's not a reflection of your worth or talent. It’s just one person’s opinion, and you can always learn and grow from it. Keep writing, keep submitting, and don’t let it discourage you. Your voice matters, and your story is meant to be heard.

Tip #6: Be Honest with Yourself

Sometimes, we avoid writing about things that feel too raw or uncomfortable. But those are often the most powerful stories. Don’t be afraid to dig deep. The more honest you are with yourself, the more authentic your work will be. It’s okay to feel vulnerable. That’s where growth happens.

Tip #7: Edit with Love

Editing can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be a battle. Read your work with fresh eyes, and make revisions from a place of love, not frustration. Cut what doesn’t serve the story, but also trust what’s working. Editing is about making your words shine—not about making them something they’re not.

Writing is a personal journey, and I’m so glad we get to share a bit of it. I hope these tips encourage you to keep going, whether just starting or in the thick of a project. Remember: there’s no “right” way to write—just your way.